I need some information on the internet that can help me with abusive husband, controlling husband, evil husba?

I need some information on how or who can help me get away from a man that is abusive in every way, controlling, a cheater and has made it where I have no money, no where to go, or no one to turn to. I am desparate and its got really tothe point, that I have asked myself wouldnt it be easier to just end it all, and then I wont have to deal with it anymore.I need some information on the internet that can help me with abusive husband, controlling husband, evil husba?
Leave. Call the battered womens hotline in your area, they will direct you to a confidential shelter where he can't find you. They will help you get on your feet (apartment, job, counseling and other social services). Get out now, you don't have to wait...tomorrow could be too late.I need some information on the internet that can help me with abusive husband, controlling husband, evil husba?
I just got out of it myself, theres nothing or no-one out there to do this for you, it has to be you %26amp; nothing you read on the internet is going to help you w/ that. You know what you have to do, %26amp; as hard as it is %26amp; scary as it seems, you can do it, believe me, if I did it, after feeling the same as you do just wanting to die then anyone can!! But it takes you REALLY putting your foot down %26amp; taking that gigantic super scary leap!! It isn't very easy @ 1st... but it gets better!! Good luck
Call a womens shelter, or some kind of human services place, they will be ablt to connect you with some extremely usueful services. If you get in contact with the right services, they can help you make a leaving plan, you never want to rush these things. Leaviong a man is one of the dangerous moments for a woman, so you need to be prepared and not be hasty.
I searched ';help for abusive women in savannah, ga'; (I live here, but insert your town) and the first site that came up was a list of women's shelters. Find a shelter close to you. And call them. Lots of abusive husbands put their wives in the same situation to insure they stay. These shelters will give you a place to stay, help with a job, clothes, child care, they offer many ways to help. Just pick up the phone.
most communities have women's center that focus on domestic violence and services for woman..this would be place to explore for your self..getting professional intervention from people who care about you..have a safety plan in place, have paperwork and other important items..cash..birth certificates..in a safe place so when you decide to leave you have the important paper work with you..clothes for three days..
hun, please seek help right now! that man is NOT worth your precious life.Get away as fast as you can. Do you have family?


Call 911 or call the national domestic violence hotline for abuse women at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)


Please call.....





Here is the website...http://www.ndvh.org/





God Bless






Whoah? Wait a minute. Don't you have any family? Are you on medication and is he trying to help you with that? If you want to end it, you might need medication. Do you think medication might make you see your husband in a different light?%26gt;
So, you have a computer. Why don't you look it up on the internet????





And why haven't you called the police yet?


Why haven't you contacted a woman's outreach centre?



Call this number any time day or night:1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
Forget the internet. Pick up the good ol telephone and call the police.
It surely would be a lot easier to end it all, but then you'd just be whipped right back into this life to do it all over again until you get it right.


Some mistakes were meant to be made and did you not choose him?? Yes, of course you did not see it coming, because you followed your heart and did not use your brains, they were ';never'; meant to be used seperately, so of course you ignored all the warning signs, because they ';were'; there.


Abusers look for certain ';types'; of women, so you best figure out what it is that they can spot, but i have some good ideas.


Abusive men can spot women who are needy, lack confidence, are dependent, who'd rather give in than assert themselves, who allow them to control, allow them to make all the decisions, who allow them to do all the choosing, give in easy, do not know how to speak up or stand up for themselves, who are naive or refuse to see the behavior, who believe only a man can fulfill and complete their lives, who think it's up to another person to ';make'; them happy, who think love cures all, that any faults would magically get better after marriage and who usually don't have brother and fathers that might actually stand up to them and rip their faces off.


He treated you in a manner that was too good to be true. You thought it was cute and loving when he showed signs of jealousy, when common sense tells one that they are 2 different words for a reason, etc.


There is absolutely no reason women should be falling into this trap in this day and age.


The info and warnings are in you face daily.


He happens to have practiced this little by little when he was dating you and you chose to ignore it. You happily handed him your life, so he could do it all for you.


Now you need to stop, you can't possibly not know about Women's Shelters call information and ask, look on the front pages of any phone book, playing the ignorant innocent victim need to stop. That is how you got yourself into this mess. Believe me it will be uncomfortable and tough for a while but that is life and we've all felt it at sometime, if not then we will. Besides you could use the pratice.


Women who don't take control of their lives will fall into this trap several times.


Now grow up, stand up and help yourself only you can do it. Phone your family if they are half decent ppl, then they ';will'; help you get home forget any pride that holds you back.


You have obviously ignored you instincts far to long, learn to listen to them, ';no one'; is without any.


Hope thing work out.